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New Vows

My husband and I renewed our wedding vows last year, at home in our living room, with the kids as our attendants, flower girls, musicians, and witnesses. He thought it would be fun and worthwhile to write new vows for each other and for the children. These are my vows to our babies:

“I promise to worry less
and play more.

I promise to love you
unconditionally.

I promise to practice
understanding and patience.

I promise to let God
guide us.

I promise to be
joyful.”

I do.

Walking Notes

We’re walking along and walking along and nothing much changes.
And all of a sudden we melt because everything feels horrible
and we cry about our socks not fitting right,
something we wouldn’t have cried about yesterday.

My little one went all to tears the other day.
I said her namely loudly, exasperated.
She belted out through her sobs, “Sometimes life is hard!”

I spun around to face her, surprised by what she said.
Something melted in me, too, and let go
so I could see things differently,
like the way the red cardinal breaks the monotony
of a dreary day, a relief, and a release
into a fresh reality.

We hugged, because that makes things okay again.
We walk along and walk along and not too much changes,
though gratefulness comes to rest on my spirit
like a red cardinal on the grey chain-link fence.