Contrary

Contrary to what we often times believe, we make other people happy. Because of this, it is our duty to be as selfless as we can manage.

~ ALS

Inspired by D. George Secrist’s request during my yoga practice, and his subsequent giggle upon my acquiescence:

“Watch me, Mommy…Come ‘ere a second…Watch me!”  he said, patting the step next to him.

I sat and watched him roll small metal and plastic cars and tractors down a blue yoga mat that had been unrolled along the bottom three stairs.  Each time the cars landed on the carpet, he looked at me, waiting.  And when I smiled, his shoulders squeezed up to his ears, and his giggle spilled out enormous amounts of love not just from his toes, but from his deepest core.  

It is in moments like these that we live the truth of giving’s excellence over receiving.  

The flip side, of course, is that if we make others happy, we also have the capability to make them unhappy.  And so we must practice awareness at all times, not just when we feel like it.  This is the hard work!  This is yoga off the mat.  

Accomplishments

toasted half of an everything bagel and served it with butter
toasted oat bread and served it with butter, cinnamon, and brown sugar
brewed coffee and drank it
drove to preschool and hardware store, twice
steered kids clear of the electrician
washed and dried laundry
warmed milk
prepared lunch
read books
emptied dishwasher
loaded dishwasher
changed diapers
pushed swings
kissed husband
served broccoli with dinner
cleaned up vomit
disposed of ants
administered two baths
read three stories, gave back rubs, and played chess for bedtime
didn’t complain or sigh or whine or luxuriate in self-pity
published a blog post
practiced thankfulness